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“I’m never usually there by morning.”

I have been with 24 women and counting I was married but the single life ruined it as I was always distracted by all the passing by opportunities after that finished i found it very easy to pick up woman from pubs especially ones that drink alone I became obsessed  and eventually became a slut sleeping with whoever whenever but regardless of how pissed or off my face I was I was always safe. I find it hard finding relationships because I don’t feel like I can make a connection with woman because I’m never usually there by morning.

” not every guy is into you, and if you want a relationship, don’t give up the cookie so quick”

I strive for having intense and intimate relationships and I’m fully aware that one can not achieve that in a one night stand. Also i have gotten to know myself and one night stands are not sexually satisfying as they are exciting for the pure rush and curiosity. So having said all that, this is how i approach the situation, it is my belief that a man proposes and the woman chooses, so seduction it is usually about the message. What is she looking for? and how is she telling me this and how am i going to meet her wants and needs. Example if a woman is looking for that power, financial type guy who works on Bay st, because she thinks they are  the alpha male, then she will get seduced by those guys all the time and those guys know it.

So onto the questions:

How old are you? 43

What’s your relationship status? Single

How many women do you think you’ve slept with? 20-25 most of them not one night stands… maybe 5 one night stands

Do you have a pick-up technique? What’s your deal?

Well, what I do is read the situation, and be honest. What this means is, if I’m into the girl a lot and i feel a connection I will lay down a path for her to make her move, once that is done then i tell them how i feel about them and just proceed. Again the point, specially now it is not to have a one night stand.

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

If I don’t like the girl, then it won’t happen. But if I like them, then most likely it will happen unless things are complicated, in that case i will just stop. Also try avoiding things like movies, eating out, and sleeping over.

 What’s your opinion on cuddling?

hmm…do it with the one you care about.

How do you seduce women?

They have to want it, then usually by kissing…

What do you wish women knew that they don’t, about men? 

Your idea of alpha males is way off… not every guy is into you, and if you want a relationship, don’t give up the cookie so quick

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

This (Toronto) is not a city that knows how to interact socially let alone flirt, so yes! Lack of friendliness, self value and self respect are 2 very different things

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?

All subjective…i like curvy and to some guys they would call them fat, and i couldn’t careless, now fat woman in my books, if she wants it, it depends how i read the situation, if i feel they’re looking for a relationship and I don’t want it, then I won’t do it. If they just want to have sex only then it depends how attracted I am. If they are too big for me I won’t do it. If I think they are more than doable then for sure…but can only do it for a for times before the get attached.

Anything else you’d like to share?

I like intense and passionate sex, kinky to a lower level compared to the “kinky” lifestyle type. Because of what I enjoy I cannot have this type of relations without a relationship i do not pursue one night stands

“Younger females are insecure.”

Nickname/ name: Mike

How old are you? 29

What’s your relationship status? Seeing two people

How many women do you think you’ve slept with?

Not sure but more than a 100

Is your aim to sleep with as many women as you can or what are you’re looking for in relationships?

Yea I don’t care to be tied down I’ve got my whole life ahead of me so I’m just sowing my wild oats. The two girls I’m seeing are seeing other people so it’s all good.

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

Can’t do anything to prevent it but it hasn’t happened yet

What’s your opinion on cuddling?

Not a fan but I’ll do it if she’s realy into it

How do you seduce women?

I ask them for their phone number. I ask them out right away if it’s on OKCupid or Craigslist. No point in wasting time.

Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you?

Sure, sometimes. Because it works and it works for me. Younger females are insecure.

What do you wish women knew about men that they don’t necessarily?

That we can see through your game when you say you don’t want a relationship you really do. Also that we will sometimes lie to get in your pants sorry.

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

I try to be respectful and no one’s ever complained about me

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?

Bahaha

Anything else?

Yes there’s a whole category of females out there called psycho who don’t respect your boundaries especially exes. It’s unbecoming. If I’m not texting you back that doesn’t mean I didn’t get your text, I just don’t care to reply sorry. For the record this is not just females, I haer from female friends guys are like that too.

“It seems like I’m probably not the target guy you’re looking for, but you’re cute and a writer so why not.”

Nickname/ name: Sam

How old are you? 34

What’s your relationship status? Married

How many women do you think you’ve slept with? 10 (6 from CL)

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

It may seem weird, but I’m already in love with my wife. I don’t really worry about falling in love with someone else. There’s a vast chasm between lust and love. I’ve definitely fallen in lust with some of the women I’ve been with, but never love.

What’s your opinion on cuddling? It’s great. I’m into it.

How do you seduce women?

I listen. I ask them what they think about things. I try to find areas of common interest between us to have a conversation about. In short, I treat them like they’re people and not a public sex-hole that needs to be gamed.

Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you? 

The whole concept is completely ridiculous. Of course I don’t.

What do you wish women knew that they don’t, about men?

I think women know *exactly* what they need to know about men.

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

I don’t worry about any of these things because I don’t come into a situation with some kind of creepy ulterior motive. I’m decidedly *not* a pick-up artist–which is what these questions seem to have been generated in response to. I use CL because you can find someone who is like-minded about the experience that’s desired. A one-night hook-up? A date and then sex situation? A quick fuck in a public bathroom? It’s all discussed and agreed upon before we meet.

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts? Ridiculous. 🙂 Scooters are fun, and any dude who is ashamed of his sex partner because of his friends needs to do some work on his own self esteem.

“It’s the 30somethings that cause trouble so I stay away because invariably there will be some kind of a relationship talk.”

Nickname/ name: Paul

How old are you? 47

What’s your relationship status? Seeing someone

How many women do you think you’ve slept with? 200+

Is your aim to sleep with as many women as you can or what are you’re looking for in relationships? What’s your deal?

When I was younger that would be something I would have the energy for but nowadays it’s all about finding deeper connections. I have no problem attracting younger women and younger women are pretty open about their sexuality. I find with the younger ones  there’s not a lot of expectation anyway. Not a lot of drama. It’s the 30somethings that cause trouble so I stay away because invariably there will be some kind of a relationship talk. I think it has to do with the biological clock ticking and women in their 30s want more out of relationships than an occasional fuck and dinner. I try not to sleep with 30somethings so that’s my deal.

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

I don’t get attached easily. I was married for 8 years and I discovered I wasn’t very good at being in a relationship so while I have a lot of affection for women I date, I don’t fall for them.

What’s your opinion on cuddling?

Love it with the right person. The worst is when you don’t particularly like the girl and she asks you to stay over. I’ve stayed over far too many times because I didn’t want to seem like a dick.

How do you seduce women?

Eye contact and confidence. I also try to make them laugh. I try to notice some detail about her and then I compliment her on it. When I was younger I would go up to women I found attractive and ask them for their phone numbers just right off of the bat. It never failed.

Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you?

No. Maybe when I was younger but it’s stupid and amateur to rely on that.

What do you wish women knew about men that they don’t necessarily?

That we pretty much want to sleep with all of you regardless of age, size, and relationship status.

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

I’ve never had that experience where a woman gets offended because I compliment her or complains to my boss. I have a friend who’s a teacher and he tells me it’s a little different where he works and he has to be diligent not to ever send the wrong message or appear like he’s flirting.

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?

I like all kinds of women, small, tall, bigger. wo I have no problem being seen with anyone in public. That saying is vile.

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