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“if you can connect with a woman in that manner then she will give you all the clues and hints to open her legs”

How old are you?  46

How many women have you been with?  Close to 100 

Do you have a pick-up technique?

There is no one “technique”. Every woman is different. Every situation is different. What you might do to pick up a woman on CL  might be COMPLETELY different than what you do with someone you met in a bar and radically different from what you might do to a woman you see every day in a certain setting (such as work or the gym). There is one common denominator though and that is you need to CONNECT. The brain is the greatest erogenous zone and if you can connect with a woman in that manner then she will give you all the clues and hints to open her legs. 

What do you think makes men most successful with women?

This depends on the woman. Some women are turned on by money and power. Some are turned on by big muscles. The majority of women are turned on by INTELLIGENCE. 

What are your deal breakers when it comes to women?

Hygiene and class. A gum snapping bimbo will make my hard-on go limp. Smoking is also a turn off. It implies a lack of self control and a lack of intelligence. Don’t get me wrong- if a woman could only smoke one cigarette (after sex maybe?) or with a drink than it’s no different than a man smoking an occasional cigar but a chain smoker is just plain gross. 

Is there a difference between a girl for just one night versus a relationship “material”? What’s the difference?

This is obviously a personal decision. I have had long term relationships with women that I slept with immediately and vice versa. Again- if you both mutually agree on a NSA on-night stand, than your criteria are going to be a little different but it all starts with attraction (both physical and mental). The nuances come with things you figure out later- like how you each feel about situations and ideas. (Especially when you start talking about saving money, raising children religion and politics). 

What do you think women get wrong about men? Or what would you like women to know about men that you don’t think they do?

I think more women have men figured out than men have women figured out (not including myself…LOL). I think both need to know that in order for a relationship to work (and this goes for both the sexual and other aspects) they need to constantly ask themselves “How would this make my partner feel”. They have to look at things from both perspectives and truly make the effort to make sure the other feels appreciated.

Do you believe in monogamy and if yes/ no, why?

I do and I don’t. It’s really a personal decision and while I think it should be the goal of everyone in a relationship- we all will admit to having either cravings or actual experiences outside of our relationship (including myself)

What’s the strangest date you’ve ever been on?

Had a girl stalk me- she made it a point to be become friends with my friends and even family. After her practically insisting I take her out- I caved and we went out for dinner. While she knew we were going to a very nice steakhouose, she never told me she was vegan so dinner became “drinks”. After a few drinks, I noticed a nasty scar on her left wrist. I asked about it and she stated she had put her hand through the glass part of a door during a fight with her ex-BF. A short time later I noticed a matching scar on her RIGHT wrist. I claimed to be tired, took her home and after dropping her off- found out my friends were driving around looking for me when they found out I had a date with that “crazy suicidal girl”. 

Would you go to bed with a woman you’re not attracted to just because why not? And why?

No- it’s like mutual masturbation at that point and I have a great imagination and I’m good with my right hand so if I needed to pretend I’m with someone else- I might as well just jerk off. 

Anything else you’d like to share?-

LOTS!!!!   Tell me which you want to hear more about. My last FWB (age 23), the mother and daughter who wanted to sleep with me, the employee who tried to have sex with me, the vendor who didn’t realize we knew each other when I answered her CL ad for NSA….and that’s just the tip of the iceberg. (Maybe we should write a book together 😉 

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” not every guy is into you, and if you want a relationship, don’t give up the cookie so quick”

I strive for having intense and intimate relationships and I’m fully aware that one can not achieve that in a one night stand. Also i have gotten to know myself and one night stands are not sexually satisfying as they are exciting for the pure rush and curiosity. So having said all that, this is how i approach the situation, it is my belief that a man proposes and the woman chooses, so seduction it is usually about the message. What is she looking for? and how is she telling me this and how am i going to meet her wants and needs. Example if a woman is looking for that power, financial type guy who works on Bay st, because she thinks they are  the alpha male, then she will get seduced by those guys all the time and those guys know it.

So onto the questions:

How old are you? 43

What’s your relationship status? Single

How many women do you think you’ve slept with? 20-25 most of them not one night stands… maybe 5 one night stands

Do you have a pick-up technique? What’s your deal?

Well, what I do is read the situation, and be honest. What this means is, if I’m into the girl a lot and i feel a connection I will lay down a path for her to make her move, once that is done then i tell them how i feel about them and just proceed. Again the point, specially now it is not to have a one night stand.

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

If I don’t like the girl, then it won’t happen. But if I like them, then most likely it will happen unless things are complicated, in that case i will just stop. Also try avoiding things like movies, eating out, and sleeping over.

 What’s your opinion on cuddling?

hmm…do it with the one you care about.

How do you seduce women?

They have to want it, then usually by kissing…

What do you wish women knew that they don’t, about men? 

Your idea of alpha males is way off… not every guy is into you, and if you want a relationship, don’t give up the cookie so quick

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

This (Toronto) is not a city that knows how to interact socially let alone flirt, so yes! Lack of friendliness, self value and self respect are 2 very different things

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?

All subjective…i like curvy and to some guys they would call them fat, and i couldn’t careless, now fat woman in my books, if she wants it, it depends how i read the situation, if i feel they’re looking for a relationship and I don’t want it, then I won’t do it. If they just want to have sex only then it depends how attracted I am. If they are too big for me I won’t do it. If I think they are more than doable then for sure…but can only do it for a for times before the get attached.

Anything else you’d like to share?

I like intense and passionate sex, kinky to a lower level compared to the “kinky” lifestyle type. Because of what I enjoy I cannot have this type of relations without a relationship i do not pursue one night stands

“Younger females are insecure.”

Nickname/ name: Mike

How old are you? 29

What’s your relationship status? Seeing two people

How many women do you think you’ve slept with?

Not sure but more than a 100

Is your aim to sleep with as many women as you can or what are you’re looking for in relationships?

Yea I don’t care to be tied down I’ve got my whole life ahead of me so I’m just sowing my wild oats. The two girls I’m seeing are seeing other people so it’s all good.

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

Can’t do anything to prevent it but it hasn’t happened yet

What’s your opinion on cuddling?

Not a fan but I’ll do it if she’s realy into it

How do you seduce women?

I ask them for their phone number. I ask them out right away if it’s on OKCupid or Craigslist. No point in wasting time.

Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you?

Sure, sometimes. Because it works and it works for me. Younger females are insecure.

What do you wish women knew about men that they don’t necessarily?

That we can see through your game when you say you don’t want a relationship you really do. Also that we will sometimes lie to get in your pants sorry.

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

I try to be respectful and no one’s ever complained about me

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?

Bahaha

Anything else?

Yes there’s a whole category of females out there called psycho who don’t respect your boundaries especially exes. It’s unbecoming. If I’m not texting you back that doesn’t mean I didn’t get your text, I just don’t care to reply sorry. For the record this is not just females, I haer from female friends guys are like that too.

“It seems like I’m probably not the target guy you’re looking for, but you’re cute and a writer so why not.”

Nickname/ name: Sam

How old are you? 34

What’s your relationship status? Married

How many women do you think you’ve slept with? 10 (6 from CL)

What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?

It may seem weird, but I’m already in love with my wife. I don’t really worry about falling in love with someone else. There’s a vast chasm between lust and love. I’ve definitely fallen in lust with some of the women I’ve been with, but never love.

What’s your opinion on cuddling? It’s great. I’m into it.

How do you seduce women?

I listen. I ask them what they think about things. I try to find areas of common interest between us to have a conversation about. In short, I treat them like they’re people and not a public sex-hole that needs to be gamed.

Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you? 

The whole concept is completely ridiculous. Of course I don’t.

What do you wish women knew that they don’t, about men?

I think women know *exactly* what they need to know about men.

In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?

I don’t worry about any of these things because I don’t come into a situation with some kind of creepy ulterior motive. I’m decidedly *not* a pick-up artist–which is what these questions seem to have been generated in response to. I use CL because you can find someone who is like-minded about the experience that’s desired. A one-night hook-up? A date and then sex situation? A quick fuck in a public bathroom? It’s all discussed and agreed upon before we meet.

“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts? Ridiculous. 🙂 Scooters are fun, and any dude who is ashamed of his sex partner because of his friends needs to do some work on his own self esteem.

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