I don’t mean to be rude but are you having a giggle. There is nothing new about this story. I am not a PUA (Pick up artist) myself but have studied the subject, for similar reasons I imagine that you have studied casual encounters. The question begs of course what exactly is your experience in this field? You do not say how it will benefit and I suspect you have just written without much consideration for the people about whom you write. It’s called Grandeur.
I read “The Game” a few years ago and worked game for a while. Psychologically it is interesting but ultiamtely pathological. I thought there was a slim chance of you being my friend ___. She wrote a book called the list of Craig about 18 months ago which was a journal of meeting people from Craig’s list and not always complying with their strange requests. I think there was something there but it probably needed refined. She has since moved from London bit would probably be interested in chatting about it if you want to?
As for why I was on Craigslist? Take a guess….. I’m a reasonably normal guy though.
Sorry I didn’t mean to be so abrupt – in a bad mood and also thought it might be ___.
The Game was interesting though. I remember at the time seeing this girl and she said, “___ my sister just read “The Game” stop working game on me.” Totally unintentional. I think an interesting aspect is from the female side…
I’m nearly 32.
I have been with 24 women and counting I was married but the single life ruined it as I was always distracted by all the passing by opportunities after that finished i found it very easy to pick up woman from pubs especially ones that drink alone I became obsessed and eventually became a slut sleeping with whoever whenever but regardless of how pissed or off my face I was I was always safe. I find it hard finding relationships because I don’t feel like I can make a connection with woman because I’m never usually there by morning.
Hi, it’s Jack. The escort in London, UK.
(He asked for my name, sent a photo and asked for a photo back. We talked about why I’m doing his project, why I advertised on the UK Craigslist, etc. I condensed some of the questions I asked and comments I made, such as “I agree” because who cares; this is about him, not me.)
Why did you become an escort? You cater to both genders?
I’m straight. And I’m happy to do dinner dates with guys. And I have male voyeur clients who pay me to do live sex shows with female escorts too.
What inspired you to become an escort?
I enjoy good restaurants and sex… So I thought why not get paid for it?
But how did you figure out women would pay for your company? Do you have a steady clientele?
Yes… A few regulars. Through my first online advert.
What do women want? What kind of women do you sleep with/ date?
It varies. Most are married. Not all. Not always sex. Sometimes just companionship. Massages, dinner dates, drinks. Wedding plus-ones.
Are they attractive? Do you date outside of your work?
Usually very attractive. [They’re] often in London on business from overseas. Yes, I date casually too. I’m currently single, but my last long-term girlfriend was fully supportive of me escorting.
How many women have you slept with?
I’m guessing between 500-700.
How do you pick up regular non-paid dates?
I’m just a charming, well-dressed, polite Englishman.
So women approach you?
I’m quite chivalrous. Of course.
Do you ever approach?
Rarely. London is a very progressive and liberal city.
What’s the biggest mistake women make when dating?
Many women plan their “future” too soon, with men.
How soon is too soon?
It’s not measurable by time. It’s measurable by understanding someone.
And what about the male mind?
There’s no one version of a mind… Male or female! The biggest mistake people make is pandering to the gender stereotypes. When they should highlight the similarities not the differences. I’m successful because I understand people — not “men” or “women.” I just happen to be straight so I end up in bed with women.
What if a very plain (by your standards) woman came on to you, not to hire you… How would you treat that situation?
I’d politely say I was flattered but not looking.
Never “pity sex?”
What if she paid?
The legal status of escorting in the UK is complex. I can legally only charge for my time and companionship. Whatever then happens during that time is the choice of consenting adults. Dinner and drinks yes. If we had a spark and an attraction, we could have sex too.
What do women like in bed?
Again, it varies.
No, I know that. Let’s approach differently. Would you be up for anything? And I do wonder if there’s an increase in S&M type of stuff after 50Shades?
I’ll show you the advert I use with my female colleagues…
Hello respectful gentlemen and voyeurs of London. We are Kelly and Jack, an established, friendly, confident and open couple based on ____. If you would like to join us for various levels of involvement, please let us know…
250 to watch
300 to watch and touch
500 to join in (safe only)
Prices are per hour, but we are not “clock watchers” so you might easily get two hours for the same price.
Kelly is a hot, tall bi blonde, 22-year-old model (think of Lara Stone and you’re on the right lines!). She’s quite submissive, and happy to dress to please for your viewing pleasure. If you are feeling particularly generous, we are happy to include an extra hot girlfriend if you’d like to watch a live threesome. Ask us for prices, if that’s your thing.
Jack is a 40-year-old charming yet dominant Englishman. He will seduce Kelly and bring her to multiple climax before your eyes.
Please note, we only either host at our apartment in ____ or travel to your pre-booked hotel. We will also attend swingers’ clubs with you for the same rates. We don’t attend private residences.
We are happy to voice verify or cam to prove we are genuine. We will also send you a couple of pics.
Our age difference makes us ideal for student/ teacher or even daddy/ daughter roleplay shows. We are clean, polite, educated and respectful. You’ll be in our home and we expect manners and non-pushiness. That said, we will have a wonderful time. Cash only for first 2/3 meets. Thereafter we are happy to set up a standing order if you’d like regular monthly shows.
But you go separate ways too?
Yes… It’s an act. We role-play a polyamorous foursome sometimes for clients. And yes, there’s a definite 50Shades effect.
Are you in love?
Not currently in love. Been single since January.
I mean with Kelly?
Ha ha ha, she’s gay! Just a friend/ escort.
But she sleeps with you for the performances?
What kind of woman are you into in your private life?
I only date bi girls as a general rule. They help me select the girls I work with. And we all continue partying after the client has left. The sexual intensity of being passionately kissed whilst getting a blow job is mindblowing.
So they [the real girlfriends] are a bit like scouts?
Ha ha ha a bit.
But these pick-ups are just for fun?
Threesomes are mildly addictive… I couldn’t live without them now. (I’m a freelance ____ too. The escorting is just a fun sideline for extra cash.)
Have you ever turn down a paying request and why?
Yes. Poo/ pain/ blood, etc.
[I thanked him, he told me to look him up in the UK, we wrapped it up with emojis.]
I don’t know if I’m good at picking up women or just lucky. I know the fact that being Bi sexual helps. Women seem to love and be turned on by seeing me suck cock with her. Also I find it interesting how many ladies want an older man.
Nickname/ name: James
How old are you? 53
What’s your relationship status? Married
How many women do you think you’ve slept with? Unknown for sure – 30 – 45
Is your aim to sleep with as many women as you can or what are you’re looking for in relationships?
Not looking for a relationship, I have that. Just enjoy sex with different partners once in awhile
What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?
I am already in love with my wife… it is mostly keeping the female from falling in love. I always remind them and am up front about my intentions.
What’s your opinion on cuddling?
OK – depending on the circumstances and situation
How do you seduce women?
Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you?
What do you wish women knew about men that they don’t necessarily?
I think that most men (including me) are turned off by stupid (dumb blonde routine).
In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?
I work in a professional environment. I am always conscious (unless I know the person very well) of what and how I say it to women for fear it may be taken negatively.
It is a different world today. Women hit on me and flirt just as much or more than me.
I know this may sound egotistical but many women today seem to be more clingy than in the past. I find women look at things a little different than men (me). For example, when I was single I would invite a woman over for the night. Many found it difficult to just have the evening and the memory, they were already wanting to re-arrange my furniture and move in…
I am not certain, just my opinion but, I think it is a good thing in a way that women are going after what they want. Not just sitting back hoping some guy will come in and save them from what ever.
“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?
I moved to _____ after doing 4 years in a federal pen in _____. I came here in September and since then I have slept with no less than 50 not all but a lot of beautiful woman. I’m always honest with them about my past and I shot u not it actually helps with my game. I love it! And by no means am I an ugly guy. I’m 5’11 225lbs and in great shape. But I look like a bad ass and I find woman love that in a man.
Why were you in the pen? And is that the first question people ask you? Do you find that women try to “fix” you or “trap” you perhaps and if yes, how do you get out of it?
I was in for guns and fighting. That’s always the first question lol So many try and fix me but how the fuck can u fix that which is not broken.
How many women have you slept with? How old are you?
How do you seduce women (have a specific pick up line?)
Do you fuck just for fucking or are you looking for a relationship?
When you say you might be the biggest slut of the project yet… how so?
What’s the appeal of sleeping with as many women as possible?
I’m 31, I have slept with more women than I can begin 2 count. I would say easy in the high 300 to 400 no joke. But I do it clean for the most part. I do not like sleeping with the same woman 2x some how I just loose all attraction after. Unless they have what I like then I can do repeat. But not often. My pick up line is what ever comes 2 mins. This weekend I had crazy sex with 2 women and all I did was tell the girls they had great asses. It was supposed 2 be 4 girls and me but 2 chickens out. I am actually seeing a girl right now that gets in on the sex with me but understands that if I don’t sleep with other woman well I’m with her that I’m just going 2 go off and do it on my own.
What kind of women turn you on? There’s this quote: “Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?
Personality is key!! I go for curves, thick but not fat. Stays in shape, confident but not over confident. I like long hair and nice legs. I prefer dark hair over blond and not a big fan of red. I will never sleep with a girl 2x if she has no ass!! I need a round ass. Firm or jiggly as long as it looks good. I like a good girl that has class and spunk. Not afraid 2 try new things. Tattoos are a plus and a tan is also. I really like smart people. I love getting into intellectual conversations about anything really. That would describe the “goal”woman
For fun I like thick and curves, again not fat. A bit crazy and out going. Adventures and fun. Smarts are not so important because I really have no intentions of talking 2 that kind of girl again. Slutty or bi sexual great combo if u can find that! They got 2 be in good shape! I’m not going 2 fuck with someone that once there cloths come off everything is not where it should be I’ll also go for thin girls if they have a nice shape, face and personality. Any race but it really depends on the person.
I have met fat girls on line and they make them selves look skinny in there pics, I’m not shy and I’ll tell her 2 go home
Oh god, there’s this time I was on parole and my first time dating on line fresh out of jail. I was talking 2 this girl for like 3 days before we met up, and in her pics she was fit and looked good. Well if they were not 10 year old pics or something! So we met in a train station in _______ and I was with one of my friends from the halfway house, well I was standing there looking around for the girl in the pic. She told me she would be in a blue sweat suit. And the only girl I saw in a blue sweat suit was fat haggard and must have had her hole life in duffle bags with her. Any way she screams my name out in excitement when she saw me, dropped her bags and came running 2 give me a hug with a huge smile on her face, she must have made it 2 with in 5 feet of me. I looked her dead in the eyes and the only words I said was “NO!” Turned and walked away well she was in tears. From that day forward I have never made the mistake of not getting them 2 send a posed selfie that I choose. Don’t get me wrong some girls are good and sneak through, but those are whole other stories.
Why do you think women are so attracted to you?
Because I’m a nice guy, bad boy, buff, tattooed, scared, I’m funny as fuck, I’m fun 2 be around, not shy and confident oh and let’s not forget I’m easy on the eyes.
Do women fall in love with you and how do you deal with that?
Omfg u have no idea how many times I have bin told someone is in love with me. If it comes 2 that I just act like such a peace of shit in hopes they just fuck off! I have legit had 4 full blown stalkers since I moved 2 ______ in September. I sleep with a hunting knife and bear mace beside my bed now after waking up with one standing over me smelling like whisky!!
That sounds scary. Are you serious? About the stalking?
I really am. I went hunting in October with 3 friends for thanks giving, let me clear this up first, “I live in the country with nothing around!!” Ok so this girl showed up knowing I was out hunting saying she was in the area and thought she would pop in and say hi 2 my bros wife. She stayed until I got home 3 days after completely un invited! My bros wife thought she was invited and couldn’t call or text 2 find out because we had no reception. When I got home my room was spotless and she was cleaning my house, bros wife was so tripped out not knowing why the fuck she was here!! I was tired and completely creeped out but didn’t want 2 be a complete ass “after all she just cleaned my house” lol do I said nothing and went 2 my room 2 get some sleep and she came in and tried 2 fuck me but I was completely creeped out and turned off that I pushed her off of me and told her 2 fuck off, when I woke up 8 hours later she was still laying in bed beside me with 1 pant leg still on watching me sleep.