I don’t mean to be rude but are you having a giggle. There is nothing new about this story. I am not a PUA (Pick up artist) myself but have studied the subject, for similar reasons I imagine that you have studied casual encounters. The question begs of course what exactly is your experience in this field? You do not say how it will benefit and I suspect you have just written without much consideration for the people about whom you write. It’s called Grandeur.
I read “The Game” a few years ago and worked game for a while. Psychologically it is interesting but ultiamtely pathological. I thought there was a slim chance of you being my friend ___. She wrote a book called the list of Craig about 18 months ago which was a journal of meeting people from Craig’s list and not always complying with their strange requests. I think there was something there but it probably needed refined. She has since moved from London bit would probably be interested in chatting about it if you want to?
As for why I was on Craigslist? Take a guess….. I’m a reasonably normal guy though.
Sorry I didn’t mean to be so abrupt – in a bad mood and also thought it might be ___.
The Game was interesting though. I remember at the time seeing this girl and she said, “___ my sister just read “The Game” stop working game on me.” Totally unintentional. I think an interesting aspect is from the female side…
I’m nearly 32.
I have been with 24 women and counting I was married but the single life ruined it as I was always distracted by all the passing by opportunities after that finished i found it very easy to pick up woman from pubs especially ones that drink alone I became obsessed and eventually became a slut sleeping with whoever whenever but regardless of how pissed or off my face I was I was always safe. I find it hard finding relationships because I don’t feel like I can make a connection with woman because I’m never usually there by morning.
Hi, it’s Jack. The escort in London, UK.
(He asked for my name, sent a photo and asked for a photo back. We talked about why I’m doing his project, why I advertised on the UK Craigslist, etc. I condensed some of the questions I asked and comments I made, such as “I agree” because who cares; this is about him, not me.)
Why did you become an escort? You cater to both genders?
I’m straight. And I’m happy to do dinner dates with guys. And I have male voyeur clients who pay me to do live sex shows with female escorts too.
What inspired you to become an escort?
I enjoy good restaurants and sex… So I thought why not get paid for it?
But how did you figure out women would pay for your company? Do you have a steady clientele?
Yes… A few regulars. Through my first online advert.
What do women want? What kind of women do you sleep with/ date?
It varies. Most are married. Not all. Not always sex. Sometimes just companionship. Massages, dinner dates, drinks. Wedding plus-ones.
Are they attractive? Do you date outside of your work?
Usually very attractive. [They’re] often in London on business from overseas. Yes, I date casually too. I’m currently single, but my last long-term girlfriend was fully supportive of me escorting.
How many women have you slept with?
I’m guessing between 500-700.
How do you pick up regular non-paid dates?
I’m just a charming, well-dressed, polite Englishman.
So women approach you?
I’m quite chivalrous. Of course.
Do you ever approach?
Rarely. London is a very progressive and liberal city.
What’s the biggest mistake women make when dating?
Many women plan their “future” too soon, with men.
How soon is too soon?
It’s not measurable by time. It’s measurable by understanding someone.
And what about the male mind?
There’s no one version of a mind… Male or female! The biggest mistake people make is pandering to the gender stereotypes. When they should highlight the similarities not the differences. I’m successful because I understand people — not “men” or “women.” I just happen to be straight so I end up in bed with women.
What if a very plain (by your standards) woman came on to you, not to hire you… How would you treat that situation?
I’d politely say I was flattered but not looking.
Never “pity sex?”
What if she paid?
The legal status of escorting in the UK is complex. I can legally only charge for my time and companionship. Whatever then happens during that time is the choice of consenting adults. Dinner and drinks yes. If we had a spark and an attraction, we could have sex too.
What do women like in bed?
Again, it varies.
No, I know that. Let’s approach differently. Would you be up for anything? And I do wonder if there’s an increase in S&M type of stuff after 50Shades?
I’ll show you the advert I use with my female colleagues…
Hello respectful gentlemen and voyeurs of London. We are Kelly and Jack, an established, friendly, confident and open couple based on ____. If you would like to join us for various levels of involvement, please let us know…
250 to watch
300 to watch and touch
500 to join in (safe only)
Prices are per hour, but we are not “clock watchers” so you might easily get two hours for the same price.
Kelly is a hot, tall bi blonde, 22-year-old model (think of Lara Stone and you’re on the right lines!). She’s quite submissive, and happy to dress to please for your viewing pleasure. If you are feeling particularly generous, we are happy to include an extra hot girlfriend if you’d like to watch a live threesome. Ask us for prices, if that’s your thing.
Jack is a 40-year-old charming yet dominant Englishman. He will seduce Kelly and bring her to multiple climax before your eyes.
Please note, we only either host at our apartment in ____ or travel to your pre-booked hotel. We will also attend swingers’ clubs with you for the same rates. We don’t attend private residences.
We are happy to voice verify or cam to prove we are genuine. We will also send you a couple of pics.
Our age difference makes us ideal for student/ teacher or even daddy/ daughter roleplay shows. We are clean, polite, educated and respectful. You’ll be in our home and we expect manners and non-pushiness. That said, we will have a wonderful time. Cash only for first 2/3 meets. Thereafter we are happy to set up a standing order if you’d like regular monthly shows.
But you go separate ways too?
Yes… It’s an act. We role-play a polyamorous foursome sometimes for clients. And yes, there’s a definite 50Shades effect.
Are you in love?
Not currently in love. Been single since January.
I mean with Kelly?
Ha ha ha, she’s gay! Just a friend/ escort.
But she sleeps with you for the performances?
What kind of woman are you into in your private life?
I only date bi girls as a general rule. They help me select the girls I work with. And we all continue partying after the client has left. The sexual intensity of being passionately kissed whilst getting a blow job is mindblowing.
So they [the real girlfriends] are a bit like scouts?
Ha ha ha a bit.
But these pick-ups are just for fun?
Threesomes are mildly addictive… I couldn’t live without them now. (I’m a freelance ____ too. The escorting is just a fun sideline for extra cash.)
Have you ever turn down a paying request and why?
Yes. Poo/ pain/ blood, etc.
[I thanked him, he told me to look him up in the UK, we wrapped it up with emojis.]
I don’t know if I’m good at picking up women or just lucky. I know the fact that being Bi sexual helps. Women seem to love and be turned on by seeing me suck cock with her. Also I find it interesting how many ladies want an older man.
Nickname/ name: James
How old are you? 53
What’s your relationship status? Married
How many women do you think you’ve slept with? Unknown for sure – 30 – 45
Is your aim to sleep with as many women as you can or what are you’re looking for in relationships?
Not looking for a relationship, I have that. Just enjoy sex with different partners once in awhile
What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?
I am already in love with my wife… it is mostly keeping the female from falling in love. I always remind them and am up front about my intentions.
What’s your opinion on cuddling?
OK – depending on the circumstances and situation
How do you seduce women?
Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you?
What do you wish women knew about men that they don’t necessarily?
I think that most men (including me) are turned off by stupid (dumb blonde routine).
In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?
I work in a professional environment. I am always conscious (unless I know the person very well) of what and how I say it to women for fear it may be taken negatively.
It is a different world today. Women hit on me and flirt just as much or more than me.
I know this may sound egotistical but many women today seem to be more clingy than in the past. I find women look at things a little different than men (me). For example, when I was single I would invite a woman over for the night. Many found it difficult to just have the evening and the memory, they were already wanting to re-arrange my furniture and move in…
I am not certain, just my opinion but, I think it is a good thing in a way that women are going after what they want. Not just sitting back hoping some guy will come in and save them from what ever.
“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?
Hi Jowita. That’s a very unique name 🙂
I’m Mike. We can talk through email initially.
Obviously, since you’re interested in writing a book about the topic, don’t be surprised if I flirt with you. Having said that..Jowita is a woman’s name correct?? Lol. If not I guess we’re both going to learn something ahahah
Well, the book is written already. This is for the website (www.guy2016.com). Yes, I am a woman. Let me know when you’re around to talk (Is here ok?).
First, obviously I was on CL [Craigslist] a woman is asking a question and let’s face it…most of the ad are a waste of time.
Okay, well… tell me why did you want to talk about this?
How do you seduce women?
Seducing depends on the situation. I like to be blunt mostly…I think brutal honesty can be shocking and good at the same time.
Sex leads to all things good…so I guess it depends on the person.
When I was younger it was 1 night stands then I got married..then I got divorced and it was 1 night stands. I think I have a pattern lol
I’m 48, 5’9″, slim, fit..longer blonde hair, blue eyes. Had a guy in a bar last week call over and asked me what band I played for lol
“Blunt honesty” as a tactic: so you just tell them you want to sleep with them? Can you give me an example of a pick-up line?
Do you sleep with (or have you) people simply because you are attractive? Can you elaborate if yes?
This line actually worked. I was in a strip club and the waitress was serving us. After awhile and talking to her I said…”Do u believe that people have a double somewhere in the world?” She hesitated and I continued, “Well I do and my double is licking your double so hard that your double is squirting in my double’s mouth…we should should do the same thing and see if the world will explode”
Did it work?
Yes it did work 🙂
That’s what’s so amazing about people..u can be as direct as you want..some people think its rude and some people think its giving them attention..maybe freeing in a way as there’s nothing underhanded or surprises….it just is what it is.
Actually I don’t like to brag about things like that but I do like to share funny stories which I have my fair share of.
Look at CL ads for BBW…and rethink who’s hard to get lol
If I understand ur last question.. have I ever used someone to just get off..
I think yes….drunk…nothing to do…know I could go over and get laid…so yes
Let me ask you something…after asking so many question of med u don’t know…ever get turned on to the point that u think about answers and those answers help u get off when you’re alone??
Or have you heard so many stories that you’re sensitized to it… how many bjs can you watch on porn before the viewer doesn’t get turned on anymore.
What motivates you to write about this? Do you like the shock value as well…I see you used the word fuck on your blog…I’m thinking you like to push the envelope
Am I close?
What is it about sex that interests you…why pick that subject as opposed to “why do ISIS men say they are Muslim but rape western women for fun” or is that ur next book. You’re European so you are more liberal sexually than most….my opinion 🙂
Because I wrote a book called GUY that talks about what some men are really like from a male point view. And I wanted this site to supplement the book. And because I’m genuinely curious.
A man comes up to you and says “let’s go back to my place and fuck..or have sex..or let me go down on you”. Your reaction is??? Why would other women have different reactions….I think men play odds…how many times can u ask and get a “no” before u get a yes.
I have actually come out of a bar and standing on the corner asked a girl if she wanted to go back to my place “just up the street” to fuck…and she said yes. What led her to just let herself go with it.
My friend and I caught the same cab as a giel and said why don’t u come with us..she said sure..and took her back to my place afterwards and has sex…after talking with her…found out she just wanted to let loose…right place right time or just lucky lol
Good morning J
After all that talk about sex..we never got into likes and dislikes and kinks. I woke up very horny….thanks 🙂
I’m not flirting with you.
Is that a statement or an explanation?
(I didn’t reply because I wasn’t sure if I was flirting. A thing to consider?)