Nickname/ name: Paul
How old are you? 47
What’s your relationship status? Seeing someone
How many women do you think you’ve slept with? 200+
Is your aim to sleep with as many women as you can or what are you’re looking for in relationships? What’s your deal?
When I was younger that would be something I would have the energy for but nowadays it’s all about finding deeper connections. I have no problem attracting younger women and younger women are pretty open about their sexuality. I find with the younger ones there’s not a lot of expectation anyway. Not a lot of drama. It’s the 30somethings that cause trouble so I stay away because invariably there will be some kind of a relationship talk. I think it has to do with the biological clock ticking and women in their 30s want more out of relationships than an occasional fuck and dinner. I try not to sleep with 30somethings so that’s my deal.
What do you do to “prevent” from falling in love?
I don’t get attached easily. I was married for 8 years and I discovered I wasn’t very good at being in a relationship so while I have a lot of affection for women I date, I don’t fall for them.
What’s your opinion on cuddling?
Love it with the right person. The worst is when you don’t particularly like the girl and she asks you to stay over. I’ve stayed over far too many times because I didn’t want to seem like a dick.
How do you seduce women?
Eye contact and confidence. I also try to make them laugh. I try to notice some detail about her and then I compliment her on it. When I was younger I would go up to women I found attractive and ask them for their phone numbers just right off of the bat. It never failed.
Do you neg? If yes, why? Does it work for you?
No. Maybe when I was younger but it’s stupid and amateur to rely on that.
What do you wish women knew about men that they don’t necessarily?
That we pretty much want to sleep with all of you regardless of age, size, and relationship status.
In this age of political correctness what is one (or two or ten) thing(s) that you find challenging? For example, do you worry about hitting on women might be perceived as sexual harassment? Do you worry about complimenting women in case it gets taken the wrong way?
I’ve never had that experience where a woman gets offended because I compliment her or complains to my boss. I have a friend who’s a teacher and he tells me it’s a little different where he works and he has to be diligent not to ever send the wrong message or appear like he’s flirting.
“Scooters are like fat girls, great fun to ride until your friends find out.” Thoughts?
I like all kinds of women, small, tall, bigger. wo I have no problem being seen with anyone in public. That saying is vile.